Why Personal Vows Make for Incredible Wedding Films
Real words, real emotions, real magic.
There’s something truly powerful about hearing a couple speak their own vows. Not the standard lines (though those are lovely too), but the personal stuff—the promises that come straight from the heart. And when it comes to wedding films, those words? They’re the secret ingredient.
Here’s why personal vows can make your wedding film unforgettable:
They Bring Your Story to Life
Your wedding film is more than just a record of the day—it’s a reflection of you. Personal vows add depth, context, and heart. They give us a glimpse into your relationship, your journey, and the little things that make your love story unique. It's like the voiceover to your own movie.
Real Words = Real Emotion
There’s nothing quite like hearing someone say,
"I knew from the moment we met..." or
"I promise to always bring you coffee in bed..."
That authenticity creates such a strong emotional connection—not just for you, but for anyone watching. It gives your film a soul. The kind of thing you’ll tear up watching on your anniversary... or even after a random Tuesday when you need a reminder of what it’s all about.
It Ties the Whole Film Together
As a filmmaker, I often weave your vows into the edit—layered over shots of you getting ready, walking down the aisle, dancing, laughing. It turns your words into the emotional thread that runs through the story, creating something truly cinematic and timeless.
A Few Tips if You’re Thinking About Writing Your Own Vows:
Keep it personal – speak like you would to each other normally.
Share a story or memory – even something small can be powerful.
Make a few promises – heartfelt, funny, or both.
Keep it under 2 minutes – short and sincere works best.
Write it down! – nerves on the day are real. Having it written helps.
Don’t Worry About “Getting It Right”
You don’t need to be a poet. Just be honest. Speak from the heart and let your partner (and everyone else!) feel the love. Those moments, captured forever in your film, will mean more than you can imagine.
So, should you write personal vows?
If you're up for it—even just a few words—you won’t regret it. The emotion, the honesty, the connection… it’s pure storytelling gold. And I’ll be there to capture every second of it.
Want a wedding film that tells your story, your way? Let’s chat.