How to Write a Great Wedding Speech (That Sounds Good on Film Too)
Whether you’re the groom, bride, best man, maid of honour, or proud parent—giving a wedding speech is one of those things that feels like a massive honour… and a bit terrifying. But don’t worry—if you speak from the heart, keep it simple, and follow a few key tips, your speech will land beautifully in the room and look (and sound) amazing on film too.
Here’s how to nail it:
Keep It Personal, Not Perfect
The best wedding speeches aren’t overly polished or rehearsed to death—they’re heartfelt and authentic. You don’t need to be a stand-up comedian or a poet. Just speak to what you know: your memories, your relationship with the couple, and why the day matters. Those real, honest moments are gold on film.
Structure Helps (Even Just a Little)
Here’s a simple flow that works every time:
Start with a warm thank you (to hosts, guests, etc.)
Tell a short story or two that reflects your connection to the couple
Say something about their relationship—why they’re great together
Finish with a toast—heartfelt or funny, just leave everyone smiling
Pause for the Big Moments
A good speech has rhythm. If you say something emotional or funny, give it a second to land. That natural pause not only lets people react, but it also gives your videographer space to capture those reactions on film—those little glances, laughs, or tears that tell the full story.
Speak Slowly and Clearly
It’s easy to rush when nerves kick in, but if you speak too fast or too quietly, your words can get lost—even with a mic. Take a breath, make eye contact, and imagine you’re having a one-to-one chat. It helps the audience connect with you and helps the audio sound crystal clear in the final film.
Short and Sweet Always Wins
Aim for 5 minutes or less. You want to leave people wanting more—not checking their watches. Trust us, even the best jokes start to lose their sparkle at the 10-minute mark.
Skip the Inside Jokes (Or Explain Them!)
If you're telling a story or joke that only a handful of people will get, it might fall flat for the rest of the room and feel a bit random on film. If it’s important, give a quick bit of context so everyone’s in on it—your future selves watching the video will thank you.
End on Emotion
Whether it’s a heartfelt wish for the couple, a loving tribute, or just something simple and sincere—finishing with emotion leaves the room (and your wedding film) on a beautiful high.
Bonus Tip from the Videographer:
Hold the mic close to your mouth.
Seriously. Not halfway down your chest. Not pointing at the ceiling. The closer and clearer your audio, the more your words shine in the final film.
Your speech doesn’t need to be perfect—it just needs to be you. Speak from the heart, keep it real, and know that the emotion you bring to the room will echo in your wedding film for years to come.
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